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Unlikley Best Friends


So before I start, I apologize. I should never be allowed to write a meaningful blog because I am a terrible writer so forgive me in advance for this horrific masterpiece and mistakes. Also, do not compare this to Ava's writing because you will just cause yourself further distress because I cannot write. Moving along. 

Dear Ava,
As your best friend, I know more about you than any other human does or probably should know. And because of that you better love me and this blog because I have blackmail on you. If you aren't laughing then you should be because you that was a joke and you have blackmail on me to so...um. Yeah. *Laughs nervously*(Inside joke between Ava and I). 😁😅

I also know that you have some days where you question your worth, your abilities, you are overcome by anxiety, or you just feel blah. I have known you for several years know and I have probably spent more time with you then I have with most of my family. Even after all this time, I still wonder why you do this? Me and many others think you are worth so much more and love you more than you could possibly ever fathom. We love your great since of humor, your smile, your determination, your stubbornness, your obsessive love of coffee and animals(you are such a typical white girl 😉), and for being YOURSELF! You are loved for many reasons other than these but those were the ones that stood out to me. You have planted a special seed in oodles of people's hearts(Indeed. I did use the word oodles). That list includes friends, family, and even people that barely know you. I also know you so well that I know that you are thinking that I am full of it... To prove my point on how much you mean to people and how much your presence is enjoyed, I had a couple of friends help me out. ☺️❤️



Tori Wofford: Ava idk where to even begin. It's only been a little over a year since I have known you, but I sure do remember the first time I met you. You had like every color in your hair and you were riding Mister up from the field. All I was thinking to myself was wow that's a lot of color in her hair, but dang I wish I could pull it off like she can. After that day of talking to you, I knew that you were something else. As the days and this little over a year has gone by, we have became closer friends. I love all the crazy things about you. Yes, I still love you and how crazy you are about snakes. Have a fabulous day Ava!
Ps...I just want you to know that I am so jealous that you can rock all the different colors in your hair and I can't. Love Tori!
Brooke Cameron: I love how you make everyone and anyone happy, and you always have a smile on face.
Helen Schmidt: Ava is one of the most creative people I know and I have always thought that she is really humble about it. She really is fantastically creative!
Kassie Nations: Ava, you are one of the most funny, witty, and laid back people I know! You always make me laugh until it hurts!😂 You are an amazing perosn on the inside and out! I hope you have a wonderful day! Much love, 💕 Kassie Nations 💕
Laura Paradis: I appreciate your sense of humor and self. You are kind but you don't take yourself too seriously. You have a strong sense of who you are and what you stand for and also you can just make me laugh. 
Abby Mortenson: I love how you always have an amazing personality and sense of humor. You always make everyone smile and feel included and welcomed. Also, you are an awesome equestrian!
Leanne Thompson: Ava, what can you say about a very unique young lady. There is something special and genuine when one thinks of Ava.
A-AUDACIOUS
V-LOVES TO DRESS AS THE VILLAIN FOR HER LOVE OF COMIC CON
A-ATTENTIVE
We love you Ava and always enjoy your company!
Morgan Cameron: You are the funniest person I have ever met. I love how you always seem to be cool with whatever whenever, and you are a great rider. I don't think anyone else can handle Mister like you can. 😂
Erin Pressley: Ava you are so amazing! You're heart is so big and you can feel your passion for the world whenever you're around. The world is truly a better place for having you in it. Have a marvelous day!
Jerry Martin(Liz's dad): I like how capable you are of expressing yourself via any media whether it be paper or blogging. I sincerely hope your future involves expressing yourself via some sort of media such as writing a book or continuing your blog because you are very good at it.
Claire Profilet: What I really love about Ava is her spirit. I know that she's not the bubbliest human being (not that I'm even close to that title either), but she's got the spunk and passion that I know will get her through anything. I'm going to sound really old saying this, but I can't wait to see what she does with herself through and after college, because I know she's capable of some really amazing things if she gets set on it. I love you Ava and I'm so happy to know you!!
Adley Lawton: Even though I haven't known her long, I would have to say that I just love Ava's personality. She is very nice and just a great person in general. Have a beautiful Saturday Ava!
Caroline Bell: I always hope you are at the barn when I am there. Just being around you for a few minutes makes my day brighter! I admire your love for animals and sweet spirit. You are always thankful for small things I do for you. My wish for you is that you would learn to LOVE birthdays because we are all blessed taht you were born!!! You make the world a brihgter place!
Meg Kennedy: 5 reasons I love you: You always makes me laugh and cheer me up. You are always willing to help. You make me feel great about myself and you treat others wonderful. You strive to do your best and work hard. You ALWAYS act like YOURSELF. Love Meg
Jackson Kennedy: I love you because you are nice, you help me, you are not mean, and you are a good rider.
Emily Ayers: I love that Ava is just plain awesome. She doesn't give a flip about what anyone might think about her and I give her props for that. She's also great at making faces... and jokes. ☺️
Ashley Nations: Ava I'm so proud of everything you have accomplished and your independence! You're so kind-hearted and always crack me up! I admire your love for horses and I'm so happy I've gotten to know you!
Grace Von Kaenel: Ava has a beautifully, quirky soul that has a natural talent to make those around her smile. I haven't know Ava long, but in the time I've gotten to know her I've loved who I've seen. She is a charismatic, unique, charming, and a hilarious person that basically bleeds kindness.
Melissa Tucker: I love how she's always so energetic and funny!
Katherine Martin: Oh Ava, You are my favorite strange child! I remember when we first met.. You were the other girl that rode the big, handsome, couch-sized pony that I loved. And I was so incredibly jealous. We met at the Halloween party and everyone was in the field, running around with glow sticks. You were breaking them open and putting the liquid on your face and on your leather jacket. We really didn't become friends or even talk much until something tragic happened. We both got that call on that Thursday that our white, yet always dirty, lovable goofball had an accident that morning. Sadly, no one could save our precious dork. I remember seeing you laying on his neck as I came down the hill. You had already cried all the tears you could and you started braiding his mane. I remember finally having a connection to you. We conversed about the funny things he used to do when we would ride him, trying to lift each others spirits.I realized how petty I was for not liking you, simply because you were also attached to that hunk of love, Gamblers Choice. Anyways! Moving on.. It's been a reward to be friends with you over these few years. I found that your weirdness worked well with mine and Liz's. The dry, corny humor makes my day every time. You are so wise compared to most. Especially for your age. You are very comfortable being the person you are and I will tell you it takes most humans getting out of high school or college to find themselves and show it off to the world without shame. So I'm glad you found your voice this early in the game. And people do admire you for that! You also have a love and tender heart and it glows very brightly. Keep it that way. Never let anyone tell you that it is a bad that. Having a soft heart in a cruel world is strength! Never let anyone dull your unique sparkle! and if they try I will punch them in the face :) You are absolutely brilliant, stunningly creative, seriously fabulous, and positively a beautiful girl. I hope you have a wonderful birthday even though you hate them. Love you!
"You're entirely bonkers. But I'll tell you a secret. All the best people are."-Tim Burton
Julia Schmidt: I wish that you would have a fabulous day!!! You are great the way you are!! Courageous, funny, and smart!!!! You will always be involved in interesting things and I can't wait to see what the future holds for you, for now I enjoy you at the farm!! Have a wonderful day!!
The Factors Family: The Feeser-Factors LOVE Ava for *many* reasons! She is kind, brilliant, funny, joyful, loving, courageous, and sweet! We wish you a Happy, Happy Saturday filled with cake but not ice cream!
Heath Maney: Ava, Ava, Ava. You are a very outgoing, funny, horse-loving, and a kind-hearted person. I remember when I first met you. I was scared to death to talk to you but you befriended me with such kindness. I will never forget that you have been a wonderful person and roll model for me to just keep on going with my riding. I couldn't have asked for a better friend. I love you very, very much Miss Ava -always and forever Heath Maney
P.s. Have a wonderful day and don't do anything I wouldn't do lol lol. Lots of love to you!*hugs*
Jamey and Sandy: Everyone knows Ava's fun-loving and determinated side but on a cold, unfortunate night, Feb 28, we saw Ava's other side. She was very caring and compassionate as things progressed throughout the night from trying to calm the situation to just being there for people. She was making sure Sandy & myself were kept updated. She held hands, she offered up tissues, comforted others, gave needed hugs, and the whole time she was trying to stay warm in the frigid air and stay strong for her best friend. We love Ava!!!
Kathleen Walker: I love Ava because she's really good at making people laugh. I love Ava because of all the weird stories she tells in our group-chat. I love Ava because she is always willing to help me(especially when it has to do with ponies). I love Ava because she understands my sarcasm. I love Ava because she's an awesome rider. Honestly, I love Ava because she's Ava. I'm not sure there's anyone else in the world like her, and I hope she knows that she's special and appreciated and so very loved.
Julianne Johnson: I love Ava's comedic attitude. She is an amazing equestrian and has a sweet heart. She's really fun to hang out with and be around. I'm very thankful to have a friend as awesome as her. 
Madison Nations: Ava you are one of the most amazing people I know. You know how to make me, along with everyone else, smile and laugh. Your witty sarcasm, care-free attitude and entertaining, crude humor are all reasons why I love being around you. I am happy and beyond thankful to call you one of my best friends. Thanks for sprinting through the pouring rain with me, adventuring through the pasture- finding waterfalls, racing sticks and leaves down the alley,  sharing your love for psychology, and camping in the barnyard with me. I can honestly say I've found a lifetime friend in you. I hope your day is just as amazing as you are!
Ellen Sharpe: Ava marches to the beat of her own drum. She's smart, funny, opinionated, beautiful, and strong...to name a few. Her love for horses makes us kindred spirits. I can't wait to see what she has in store for the world. 😊 
Vivienne Hutto: Hi there. First off,I know how much you love birthdays so HAPPY BIRTHDAY AVA!!! Okay, now that's over with... HAPPY BIRTHDAY AVA!!!!!! I had no idea the day I broke into the farm to talk with Chrissy that my life would be changing so much and that I would finally get to meet Sarah's little cousin who rode horses. We live in such a small world right!? I have had so much fun getting to know you and how much you love eating dairy even though it makes you (insert your own words here). I love you like a sister and I can't wait for all of the laugh until you cry moments, rush to get lactaid after eating Ben and Jerry's, and the never dull barn days. I love you! Keep that head up high always! And HAPPY FREAKING BIRTHDAY!
Liz: When I first met you, back in 2013, you were were riding Dicey. You had a blue helmet on with long, curly locks sticking out from underneath and you were wearing that leather jacket of yours. All I remember thinking was that you were shy, different, and I gave your props for being able to ride such a bouncy and heavy horse. You stayed my acquaintance for several months until I met you again at the Halloween party. I decided there that I didn't like you because you were singing loudly as we were gallivanting through the fields. You decided you were afraid of me because I was shushing you just as loudly. Several days later Julianne, you, and I were watching Trey try to tackle a cross-rail on Pancho. Later on when I went and watched the videos I heard you singing in the background. I remember laughing for a while and then showing Katherine and then laughing some more. I decided that you weren't annoying anymore and that you were just different and funny. We didn't actually become friends until the unfortunate death of one large, beautiful soul named Dicey because Katherine and you had common ground. I remember feeling so very sorry for you and meeting your mom that night. We exchanged phone numbers and slowly started spending more time together around the barn. When you flash forward to today it is pretty insane how close we have become. You are probably one of my favorite humans. You are also one of the very few people that I completely trust and that I am completely open with. You provide corny jokes to laugh at and you are always willing to help me when I ask. You are also so very opinionated. Which makes you extremely hard-headed and stubborn but it also makes you, YOU. You have an adventurous soul which makes you even more fun to be around. You were with me in my happiest moments or you were the cause of them. You were by my side in situations that many people could not even begin to comprehend because you had also experienced it before. You also provided a safe place for me to cry when it was over. I am so unexplainably thankful that you were there and I plan on doing the same for you until you get so annoyed of me that you kill me. You are such a bright, caring, and magnificent human being. And you are basically my other half. Thank you for being one of a kind(bloody knuckles and cigarettes?[inside joke]) and for allowing me to call you my best friend. You mean the world to me and multitudes of people(as you have just seen)! I love you in a gargantuan and over abundant amount! HaPpY sAtUrDaY yOu BeAuTiFuL wEiRdO!!!!!! 😍😘💝🎉🎊🎁
Your Padre: Ava is the most tenacious child I have ever known. If she gets thrown she will stubbornly climb back on and the horse will almost always be the one worse for wear.
Your Madre: Happy Birthday my sweet Ava!!! It is so hard to believe you are 15 already! You have turned into a beautiful young woman and I am very proud of you and your determination. I have never seen someone get something in their mind and wholeheartedly go after that vision until you have accomplished exactly what you set out to do. You were making incredible costumes(Fresca) when you were 9, you taught yourself to lay the Ukulele and you have become quite the equestrian among other feats. Don't lose your crazy sense of humor or that infectious laugh!!! I hope you have a wonderful 15th Birthday and know I love you, very, very much!! Xoxoxoxoxo Mom
Lou: Ava you are really good at horses and I'm sorry I give you s--- about everything. You are very talented, even though you don't tend to flaunt it. Go out into the world and be the detective psychologist (or whatever it's called. It slips my mind right now but you'll probably correct me when you read this so its all good) butterfly you were meant to be. *imagine the Beatles Happy Birthday song after reading this*


P.S. I do not apologize for any of the following photos.... :)



"We don't play games... we win them!"

Ava! No guns on public grounds!
That is a great look for you Ava

Super dude!!!
Oh. Wow. Ava. That is very attractive.

That is the face of determination right there

Squad

ROLEX 2016


Ava the Knight
Every I look at this photo I can't help but laugh because we were casually walking back to the barn from a nice little gallop and Ava just grabs this plant and pulls in straight out of the ground. I'm pretty sure I almost peed myself I was laughing so hard. Then she proceeds to keep it even after we got off and put our horses back out.

CHINS


Always the most photogenic in the picture

WOWZA! We are HAWT!
Winner winner


This is a package deal right here.




HAPPY SATURDAY AVAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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